About goals, priorities and general orientation: my words for the year

2012 12 01 12.34.02 About goals, priorities and general orientation: my words for the year
Ideas of Heaven

It is the time of year when we all examine the past and make plans for the future. People set goals, work out priorities and decide on transforming their lives – well, at least for the next week or so. People join the gym (and exercise three times), go on a diet and stop smoking (these don’t last long if you are anything like me either).

For a long time I have been very suspicious about the wisdom of making New Year’s resolutions, setting goals (be these SMART or not) and establishing priorities. In fact last year, I decided to check my priorities against what people consider important. To do this, I assumed that people sing about the things that are important so I went over many songs, from different times and in different styles.

Guess what? People mainly sing about love (in its different manifestations), health, wealth and adventure. Some go a bit broader but they are very few and far between (mostly the Soviet bards like Okudzava and Visotski did this; oh, and country music). So, priorities at this level are simple! I never heard a song about getting up in the morning and not enjoying one’s job, or getting a rise.

Having failed to work out my priorities beyond ‘love more, be healthier, and spend on having adventure’ I looked at alternative approaches. As these go, Chris Guillebeau’s one is better than many: at the end of every year Chris spends a week or so on his review, reflecting on what went well and what didn’t. To anchor what he is looking at he decides on couple of words that will define what he does that year.

What could I lose? So I decided that my words for 2012 are ‘reach and influence’. This is how I justified my choice:

I love creating! Thinking back I noticed that far too often I created and then either failed to complete or didn’t take advantage of the creation. Others around me did!

In my case, completing the creation and reaping the benefits it (potentially) could bring is closely related to increasing my reach. Otherwise I find myself with many papers that never get sent to journals (because I have lost interest), projects that ‘just about make it big’ (because I had no patience) and ideas people never hear about. Sounds familiar? This is pretty much what Jonathan Fields described in Uncertainty: Turning Fear and Doubt into Fuel for Brilliance. It is time for this to end and for me to ‘have a jolly good go at it’.

Whilst the outcome is always uncertain – as is the nature of creation – it is worth trying.

This is why my words for the year are ‘reach and influence’.

Did I do what I set out to do?

Yes I did! I focused on what I knew is my weakness – creating and not seeing things through to completion (mainly getting things out there). Thus, I finished to a very high standard an extremely high profile research project I led (EURECIA); published five academic articles and book chapters (all in top quality journals); have three more almost ready for submission and have started work on an academic book. I have been invited to talk about my academic work around the world and…well, I’ll let you know when the next step materialises :).

I am working on my academic website – I suppose that this is how the ‘academic game’ of influence will work in the near future; not solely through academic journals.

I am not going to talk about The Money Principle again; just would like to mention that several readers have suggested that my 10 steps article will make a good book but we shall see about this one.

One thing I learned this year is that ‘reach and influence’ need complete focus and single-minded determination.

When I announced my words for 2012, some blogging friends set theirs as well. So we have:

Miss T – ‘optimism and direction’

Rashawn – ‘growth’

Pat – ‘no time to waste’

101 Centavos – ‘growth and watchfulness’

Pam- ‘balance and perseverance’

Jai – ‘build and create’

John – ‘completion’

How did you do, my friends?

Oh, and my words for next year are:

Health and Wealth

Very happy, prosperous and peaceful New Year to all!

17 thoughts on “About goals, priorities and general orientation: my words for the year”

  1. Hmmm….I need to think about my words for 2013. Currently I’m thinking that the general theme is to close open loops and tighten my focus. It’s time to get serious about a few of my biggest concerns and to throw off the rest.

  2. Hmm, if I had to give two words for my goals for next year it would be purpose and progress. Because they feel like the two things most missing from my life at this point.

  3. i kind of like this goal setting time of the year  .. everyone getting focus to make their lives better .. sure, many folks will fall of the wagon soon after.. but i love it that everyone is trying..
    i am going to say my words for the year are “grow” and “develop”

  4. Happy New Year to you as well!
    I really like how you noted that people just don’t sing about getting up in the morning each day and working, at least most of the time.  Very true, it’s romance, adventure, and money that seem to get people going and matter.
    For me, the new year is about focus, and discipline.  Both in terms of how I spend my time, who I spend my time with, and with respect to healthy choices (diet and sleep).  Looking forward to all of us succeeding this year!

  5. Happy healthy and wealthy New Year!
    My words for 2013 would be live (as in live life instead of existing, not stay alive, though that is important too) and grow.

  6. OK, what do you think about following thid through next year? So, if you remember your ‘words for the year’ we’ll get back next january and tell each other how did we do. I’ll provide the wine – you already know that my tastes are expesive and good :).

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