The Money Principle Brain Teaser: what are your fears for the year ahead?
Last week I asked about hopes for the year ahead and shared mine. This week, I would like to turn and face some demons – these are the incapacitating fears that paralyse us and prevent us from being all that we could be.
Facing our fears head on is much recommended by the self-help and motivation literature. In fact, one the most useful and powerful exercises suggested by Tim Ferriss (sorry, was going to link to Tim’s site but my computer tells me that it has been reported as an attack page) in his book The 4-Hour Work Week, I find, is the one involving writing your worst nightmares down and then considering what could be done if they materialise. I did it and was amazed by how transferring the fear from my head on a piece of paper (OK, on screen if we are to be precise) completely disabled it.
Fear, though, has the ability the morph and re-surface; so, I thought that the time has come for another go – this time my question is only about formulating fears.
The question is:
What are your fears for the year ahead?
Here is my answer:
Most people’s fears are about health, security and the economy (both the state of the economy at large and their personal and family economy). This is why, governments are particularly careful and face the most intense controversies, when dealing with these; health, security and the economy are also by far the largest expenditure/investment items in any budget.
I am not worried about health immediately – we are all in good health, may it long continue. It would be splendid if John and I get in form and shape a bit more but this is not a fear: it is something we are taking action on. We are just back from the skiing slopes and I am looking for running a marathon again; it is time!
Most of my fears are about the economy and they spill over into security. My fears are:
The euro may collapse. This may sound as an abstract fear but it will have very real effects for the UK economy (and this is very concrete in our case). Moreover, this will affect our family’s economy severely as well: most of our earnings are in euro.
We will carry the debt negative wealth for another year, or even longer. This is immediately linked with the first fear and I’ll be so disappointed.
I’ll lose my job. There was a time when academics really had ‘jobs for life’ but this has changed quite a lot in the UK: now we have long term contracts. This still means that we can be sacked only for gross incompetence (which obviously is hard to prove in academia) but it is possible to close departments and make the academics in these redundant. Having said this, my fear may be very misplaced but this is a long story.
Grown-up sons will be part of the ‘lost generation’ of the early 21st century. This could happen; the question is what is there to be done about it and what my role in this could be.
It is your turn: what are your fears for the year ahead?
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My worst fear is my mother continuing on her downward financial spiral. I’m hoping that will change!
@Michelle: I am so sorry to hear about that. Is it circumstances or is it irresponsibility? Hope all will be well anyway.
My worst fear is not money related but more along the lines of starting a family. But I do fear job loss of my husband when I am taking a break from my job for my treatment. Hopefully nothing like that would happen, but I am planning for it anyways
@Suba: Yeah, people should get their priorities right and starting a family is important. Wish you all the best with your treatment (treatments work and the evidence is an 11 year old boy with passion for arguing in our case).
Is it bad that I have zero fears when I think about this coming year? Lots of opportunity. Things seem to be coming together quite nicely. Even if the economy were to tank, I think I’ll still survive.
@Funancials: Not bad at all! A very good place to be in fact.
I have one big fear that my grandmother will die this year (she is going to be 87) and I will have to go back home to bury her, and take care of some stuff. It is hard emotionally and financially.
@Aloysa: This is a very serious and justified fear. How is your grandmother feeling, though? If she is not poorly, emotionally it may be better to enjoy her now; and financially you will have time to prepare.
I am a bit concerned about the birth of my 4th child…if there will be complications, etc.
@Super Frugalette: Good luck with this and I’ll be thinking of you. What is your experience with the previous three?
I can be honest. I am not operating by fear. I find it very counterproductive, so I focus on what I “do” want to happen. It’s just a matter of preference, world view, and belief system, but not a judgement issue (i.e., I am not against people who have different perspectives on this issue).
@Roshawn: You are where I have been getting to for sometime now. I so want to forego fear completely. Bus I still have concerns and sometimes, let’s face it, fears.
My biggest fear for the year ahead is that my MIL won’t get better or die- she’ll stay in a barely conscious state- there enough to not need any machines, but still not really there. She doesn’t have the resources to be in long term care. And our emotional resources are wearing down, too.
Yeah, my fear is a bit of a bummer.
We’ve chosen to counter it by continuing to move ahead with the things we want out of life and not letting her situation hold us back.
@Shanendoah: I am sorry to hear about that and hope that your MIL will recover sufficiently not to need long temr care. This is such a drain on energy and emotion.
I’ll second Roshawn’s comments about fears. It’s not much use to have fear of outside or distant events that we can’t even control. One positive consequence of actively engaging in careful financial planning is lessening the fears/impacts of personal disasters like job loss, disability, etc.
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I have a thousand and one fears, but they make me act on my goals – fears make me work that much harder to ensure they won’t come true!
My fears include not being able to graduate, not being able to find a permanent job, some family stuff – I just try to make sure these things don’t happen
@Daisy: Glad to hear that fears don’t immobilise you but quite the reverse. Graduating is important so keep going.